Your mind is your most powerful asset, and you must be able to control it. Fear and worry are not options for being a great lover. Confidence in yourself is your responsibility and is dependent on how your mind is conditioned to perceive the life around you. Conditioning your mind for positive results not only includes positive actions, but also includes guarding your mind from constant negativity or stress. Everyone is different so you have to be the judge of what is stressful to you. The constant monotony of
most local news stations and their endless reports of murder and car theft is enough to drive one up the wall, hence negative cond itioning.One may automatically perceive local news as bad news and negative. It is one’s choice to do so. Someone else may see the same news program as informative and a privilege.
Being around negative, unhappy, or stressed out people can also stress you out. Keep in mind though, life is only how one perceives it to be through the identity he or she perceive the mselves to have.
If you are an accountant and feel that being an accountant is your identity, then you will have no identity if you loose your job. But if you have established your identity as a child of God,based on the word of God, who works as an accountant, you will remain a child of God whether you loose your job or keep it.
Let me mention a couple of things just to get you geared up to receive the importance of being in control of your mind and your perceptions.
* Your thoughts control your brain and your brain controls your body. You must learn to control your thoughts or “self”.Aside from reflex reaction, you are 100% in control of yourself and body unless you have subjected yourself to worry and negative thought conditioning.
* How you view your past can influence your present actions and reactions, consciencely and unconsciencely. In other words what you decide to do at a given moment is based on your past and/or present knowledge of certain situations or experiences,which will sometimes be pre-meditated, sometimes reactive (from past) and sometimes habitual.
* The ability to harness, channel and control your thoughts and sexual energy will enable you to better sex.
* Optimizing your physical, mental and spiritual condition will in turn optimize your ability to channel and control your thoughts and sexual energy. It is equally important to optimize the attitude that you have toward life as a whole, which may determine the conclusion of your experience.